Who chooses how you live your life?

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Have you ever had someone telling you what to do or not to do? Have you ever had someone being on some emotional state just because you were doing something different than what was expected from the person?

This article was written to bring ease to people having difficult with their choices based on expectations of family and friends. My point of view is that family and friend relationships shouldn't be about limiting your possibilities.

So, if it is happening with you now, if you feel stuck because of your loved ones, this text is an invitation for looking at it from a different point of view. What can you do or be different in order to have ease with it?

How often do you experience people making themselves sad, angry or annoyed by what you are choosing for your life? How often do you choose what other people would like you to choose, so you don't activate specific emotional states on them?

Sometimes they don't even have to say anything, it's energetic, it is just difficult for you to choose what you would like in the presence of some people and you end up feeling stuck. Isn't it?

Would you put an end on leaving yourself behind and putting everyone else first? It is not about fighting other people, what if it is about being the allowance that is required to choose what you choose and let people feel what they feel?

If you are struggling when other people are exposing emotional charge because you are not meeting their expectations, try this:

Interesting point of view I have this point of view Interesting point of view this person has this point of view interesting point of view everyone has this point of view

Repeating it 3 or 4 times will release the emotional charge and make things lighter for you.

Interesting point of view is an Access Consciousness® tool that is a super power if you have enough allowance to change your point of view about any situation.

Would you recognize you don´t make people sad, angry or whatever when you make a choice that is different than their expectation of you? Would you acknowledge that their emotions are their own choices?

It's neither about being against other people's opinions, nor about convincing them you are right.

What if it is about allowing you to choose whatever you would like to choose and allowing others to feel whatever they would like to feel about your choice? What if you don't have to do anything about it?

What if you don't have to be the effect of other's people emotions anymore?

How lighter can your relationships be if you can choose something different than what your loved ones projected for you and that is not a problem?

What if you can create relationships that are easier, lighter and more nurturing to you? Relationships where you are not judging each other at every thought?

What if choosing different than what the people you like expect of you and living differently than them is not a judgement, a separation or an exclusion of them? What if it is just you choosing you, and what if that is exactly what the world requires?

If you change, the world around you changes too.

If you have already taken an Access Bars® Class or an Access Workshop, you can use the clearing statement with the questions on this post. What would that create for you?

In the meantime, Would you let go all the energy this article brought up for you now?

123, 123, 123.

How does it get any better than that?